By Erin Brodbeck, LCSW, CT, Director of Grief Services, Center for Loss & Healing
People:
- Identify your support team. Your grief journey is too treacherous to go through by yourself. It's important to figure out your support system early on.
- Reach out to support groups or counselors. It's not a bad idea to have as many people supporting you as possible.
- Find a spot that you find comforting or relaxing. Make it your special place to reflect, meditate or cry if you need to.
- Find a place that you find comforting and will offer support no matter when you there. That might be at church, a relative or friend's house, or maybe it's at the movie theater. It's your place, you get to pick it.
- Keep a memory box with items that remind you of your loved one. This could be a special necklace they wore or a CD that they really liked.
- Keep a journal. You can write down your feelings every day or special memories of your loved one. You can take it with you to use as needed, or you can use it in your special place to find comfort.
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